I hadn't really thought about it, but I realized I definitely should. Here are my triggers for joy:
- riding my bike (something about the exercise plus being outside really makes me feel GREAT.)
- creating music (singing or playing, either way it lifts me up.)
- cooking/baking for people
- quality time with Ren (reading to him, playing with him, even watching YouTube videos of whatever currently grabs his attention, but most especially doing whatever makes him laugh!)
- hugs from Robb
- spending time with friends
As I said before, in an effort to be mindful I've given thought to what triggers me to start the downward mental/emotional spiral, but I hadn't really thought about what triggers me to feel joy. It's an exercise I recommend for everyone, so here's my question for you: what causes you to feel joy and how can you make it happen more often in your life?
EDIT: I was reminded that the following should be on my list.
EDIT: I was reminded that the following should be on my list.
- Ryan
- :-)
I can tell this is a work of a shadow writer, because the "real" Vanessa would have put me somewhere in the list. ;) Do you have handouts/notes from the workshop? Sounds like something I could do with residents at Hillcrest.
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Yay! Happy to be a trigger for you the other night. I already miss my little buddy. And you, of course. :-)
ReplyDeleteThis (triggers for happiness) IS an excellent idea! I haven't been commenting on your posts - just remembered you had this blog and have been catching up on your days - so I just want to say here that I am SO happy you're doing this and that I find this blog inspiring! Love you muchisimo.
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